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What I Want To Do In Life

It’s important to have dreams. Not just tasks, which we actively work to achieve. Not hopes, those wishes we send into the wind that may, or may not, be accomplished ‘one day’. Not even resolutions, those tasks we set for ourselves at least once a year in order to improve our lot in life.

No, dreams, those far off, seeming impossible for the moment (but we WILL achieve one day) goals that help to motivate and inspire us as we move through life. I shared a rather impressive sounding dream yesterday, one from Mrs. Accountability of Out of Debt Again, a dream of owning a yarn shop. It’s a bit of an odd dream, as even Mrs. Accountability admits, but you can tell as you read through her post and can see the passion in her writing that this goal is one she is determined about and focused on.

Have you ever tried to find an image for 'dream'? It's not easy...

That sort of passion is the type of thing I think we all could use a little of in our lives, so I thought I would take a page from Mrs. Accountability’s play book and share my own dream job:

I Want to Be a Professor

I know, it probably doesn’t sound like the sort of thing that will convince anyone that I am anything but a huge nerd at heart. (Not that I would try; as Sondra is fond of pointing out, I don’t exactly come off as anything BUT a huge nerd, so why fight the inevitable?)

There’s just something about teaching that I have to admit I enjoy. One of the more enjoyable parts of being a graduate student is that I have the opportunity to teach undergraduates in the lab courses and recitations (essentially, a sort of study/review session the students go to once a week to try to make sure they are actually learning the material). Being able to help the students understand the material is a great feeling, as is seeing the look in their eyes as things finally click.

There’s also the opportunity to do research, not because it might lead to a new drug or other product (although, do not misunderstand me, such research is very important), but simply to advance human knowledge, and build up such knowledge that might, one day in the distant future, lead to medical or other scientific advances. Being able to add to the sum total of human knowledge is a pretty impressive thing to add to the old resume, and it’s one of the reasons why I first got into the physical sciences.

But First…

Now, you might assume from all of this that I’m heading as quickly as possible towards being a professor. That’s not quite the case. While I do want to become a professor at some point in my career, there is the issue that work in academia tends to pay significantly less than work in the business sphere for biochemists such as myself. Heck, I know this from personal experience, having earned nearly as much in entry level industrial positions with a Bachelor’s degree as I could expect to earn in the academic field with a Ph.D.

So, my plan actually looks a little more like this: I intend to graduate this year (hopefully in the spring, although given how much trouble I’ve been having getting my research to turn out properly, I’d be willing to settle for the end of summer). I will start an industrial job, probably in the pharmaceutical area which is where many of us biochemists end up, soon after graduation (the job hunt is already a foot), marrying my dear Sondra around the same time, and before long we will add a child or two to our little family.

Where does becoming a professor fit in, then? That’s more for the second act of my life (or perhaps third, if I’m already on act two with going back for a Masters’ Degree); my dream is to work for a decade or two, helping to support my family and allowing Sondra to be the stay a home mother (and work from home artist) that she wants, before I continue my education, get a Ph.D., and do what I can to become a tenured professor. It’s not impossible; it’s actually semi-common in the biochemistry field to come back to academia after a stint in industry, although I will have to earn a Ph.D. at some point to even hope to become a full professor. It will mean gearing up for a second career when many people are settling into the same rut, trying to push through another decade or two before they can call it a lifetime and retire.

But here’s the thing: I WANT to keep working. I can’t foresee a time when I’m ready to spend all day fishing or lounging at a retirement home or traveling the world. (Although, if I do want to do that last one, there are academic opportunities all around the world I might be able to take advantage of, as well as an ever increasing ability to work with other scientists, even those outside of the United States. To say nothing of a good old-fashioned hiatus or two.  Plus, there are advantages to becoming a professor emeritus after a successful career.)

Being a professor is just something I’ve wanted to do, for at least the last decade now. Hopefully, one day, I’ll be able to put it into action.

What is your dream profession? What are you doing to make it a reality?

Learning From Unmet Resolutions

The new year is well and truly upon us now. The resolutions have been made, the plans to achieve them have been drawn up, and we’re all ready to meet our goals in the coming twelve months. Everything is set, right?

Well, maybe. Chances are, you made some resolutions for last year, too, and probably didn’t get everything you wanted accomplished. After all, it’s sometimes tough to lose fifty pounds, pay down your credit card debt, and dominate the world, all at once. (Although, that last one might just be me.)

As you've probably heard more than once, you can't win the race if you don't run

 

While it’s tempting to push all those missed resolutions to the back of your mind and never think about them again, there’s much that you can potentially learn by looking back and reviewing your failed resolutions, seeing where you ran into trouble last year could help you see how to do better this year. I tried to do so myself in my latest resolution review, and it did help me to determine how to approach my goals this year.

Here are a few Dos and Don’ts to keep in mind as you look back at the year that was, and consider how to do well in the upcoming year:

DON’T Be Too Hard on Yourself: There are any number of reasons why you might not have gotten everything done that you wanted to do in the past year, many of which were likely outside of your control. Beating yourself up over not getting everything done that you wanted doesn’t do anything to help you improve in the new year, nor does it make the past year any more productive. What it does do is make you feel bad, and put you in a poor state of mind for getting your new goals done.

DO Think About What Went Wrong: This is not to say that you shouldn’t review what happened with your goals in the last year, and try to figure out why you weren’t able to achieve what you hoped to achieve. Looking back on your goals can give you some excellent insights into how to go about improving in the new year. Some possible reasons you ran into trouble could include trying to do too many things at once, making resolutions that were too ambitious (losing two hundred pounds of weight or building up your net worth by $100,000 would both be stretches for the average person), and not creating a reasonable plan for meeting your goal.

DON’T Forget to Learn From Your Mistakes: It’s not enough to know what went wrong if you set yourself up to make the same mistakes again in the coming year. If you discovered that your resolutions were too ambitious, for example, don’t allow your new resolutions for this year to be equally ambitious. Instead, review your resolutions for this coming year in light of what you learned about the past year, and adapt your new resolutions accordingly.

DO Share Your Resolutions: One of the best ways to motivate yourself to get your resolutions accomplished is to share them. Not only can your friends, family, or blog readers (for those of us write blogs, at least) help you to meet your goals through advice or other help, but the simple act of making your goals public can help to make it more likely that you will put in the time and effort needed to accomplish them.

DON’T Get Discouraged: Finally, it’s easy to discouraged when you look back at things you wanted to get done and ended up failing to do. The last thing you want as we start a new year is let past difficulties cause you not to try your hardest. Remember that your success this year is determined only by how hard you try.

That’s some good advice on how to be successful in this new year, if I do say so myself.  Here’s hoping you have plenty of luck accomplishing all your goals for 2012 and beyond!

Roger’s Resolutions for 2012

Alright, it’s a brand new year, and for most of us, that means one thing above all others: resolution time! Yes, as the calendar rolls over, we try to improve ourselves, by focusing on the aspects of our lives we’d like to to improve. There’s plenty in most of our lives that we would like improve, and it tends to be easier when so many other people are also trying to make their lives better.

You might recall that last year, I made a number of resolutions (ten in fact), which I’ve been trying to achieve over the past year. I’ve done a somewhat decent job on achieving them all, but trying to do ten different (if generally inter-connected) things proved to be a bit too much for me to achieve.

Yup, I felt a bit like this at times during the past year

Rather than spread my focus in so many different directions, this year I’m going to make a smaller number of more focused resolutions. Hopefully, if my goals are more focused, I can have more success in achieving them during the next year. So, rather than creating ten different resolutions and dividing them into three categories, I thought that this year, I’d only create three goals to keep my attention more focused. So, with no further ado, here are my resolutions for 2012:

For my Blog, get my Alexa Ranking Under 100,000: I had hoped to reach this point by now, anyway, but things just haven’t quite worked out like that yet. So, rather than five different goals that should get my ranking to this point, I figured I would focus on the hopeful end goal instead. (I have mentioned, when going over my resolutions from last year, that I’m a bit leery about making goals that are dependent on other people’s responses, but I feel in this case that it should be more than possible if I focus on my blogging more.)

For my Finances, Eliminate $5000 in Credit Card Debt: Rather than the rather vague ‘Pay Down My Credit Card Balances’ goal I had last year, this year I’m giving a specific dollar goal and going to try my best to achieve it. It won’t be easy, but by focusing on doing so a little at a time, I should be able to get this accomplished. (As a side note: I will be taking out more money in student loans later this month; any portion of that money which goes to paying down my credit card balances won’t count. The last thing I want to do is simply trade one debt for another while calling it ‘paid down’.)

For my Personal Life, Finish Graduate School and Get a Job: This is another of those that depend on people other than me, that is true, but finishing grad school is certainly within my control, and if I start working diligently on job hunting now, it shouldn’t be too much of a problem to find myself some gainful employment. It’ll take some effort, but more than anything else I can do in the coming year, this will help me get my life off to a better start.

There you have it, three new goals for the new year. What do you hope to accomplish in 2012?

Where I Stand on My Resolutions – 4th Quarter

Ah, it’s amazing how time flies, isn’t it?  It seems almost yesterday I was sharing some of my goals and resolutions for the new year of 2011, and here it is, the end of 2011 and time to think up new goals for the coming year.  Of course, before I go and start sharing a whole new set of goals for 2012, it’s probably good to sit down and see how well I did on my resolutions.  (The same way I did at the end of the first quarter, second quarter, and yes, the third quarter of this year.)

Hopefully, seeing my overall progress on these resolutions will help me to do better in the future.  To aid in that regard, I’m going to add a review of the resolutions themselves, to share some thoughts on attempting to achieve such a resolution in a single year and how well (or not so well) it worked out for me.  Given that I should come up with some new resolutions in the next few days, thinking back on the pros and cons of these resolutions should be good to help me learn from my mistakes.

Roger’s Resolution Rundown

Resolution #1: Write At Least One Post Per Day
Comments: Well, as I look back at nearly a year worth of writing, I see that I’ve written 199 posts in 2011 (including this one).  That’s 166 short of my goal, and a bit more than half, when all is said and done.  Not exactly what I had hoped to get accomplished.
Grade: C-: Well, I did manage a pretty healthy output of blog entries, even if I fell a bit (or more than a bit) short of my initial goal.  All the more reason to try harder next year, I suppose.
Resolution Review: While not a bad goal, it’s a bit tough to achieve a post a day under the best of circumstances.  While there are clearly bloggers who manage to put up a fresh, new post each day (and sometimes more than one), they tend to be full-time bloggers who can put in eight or more hours a day doing this, not people trying to fit in time to write a blog post between preparing bacteria for research and studying for a test (that is, people like me).  Maybe a more modest goal, three to five posts per week or so, would be more suitable.

Whoo-Hoo! Fireworks to ring in the New Year!

Resolution #2: Write At Least One Guest Post Per Week
Comments: Yeah, if there’s one goal I really, really, REALLY have not done well with, it’s this one.  Still haven’t been able to write any more guest posts; one of my biggest regrets this past year is not doing more in this respect.
Grade: F: Yup, as you might guess, still no improved grade here.  I’ll have to try harder in the coming year.
Resolution Review: It’s a pretty solid resolution, and something I do hope to achieve.  Although, as with the first resolution, it might have been a bit too ambitious; particularly as I work through grad school, it’s tough to even keep up with my blog, let alone write posts for my fellow bloggers.  I’ll need to try better to find the time, though.

Resolution #3: Promote My Blog In More Places
Comments: Not too much good to report here; I’ve been trying to do more promotional efforts, but as you might guess, it can be a bit tricky (to say nothing of time consuming).
Grade: D : Quite a bit more effort to be made here, as there’s definitely quite a bit of room for improvement.
Resolution Review: Not a bad goal to have, although as with so many resolutions, it suffers from a decided level of vagueness; I could say that simply by participating in the few carnivals I did this year, that I DID promote my blog in more places.  I’ll need to be more specific in the future, I suppose.

Resolutions #4 & #5: Read At Least 50 Blog Posts Per Day & Comment On 10 of Them
Comments: If you re-read those linked resolution reviews from previous quarters, you probably know what to expect here: I have been doing some more reading and commenting, but nowhere near the level I hoped to achieve
Grade: F: Yup, you guessed it, another F for this resolution.
Resolution Review: While reading and commenting on fellow bloggers a good goal to have for an up and coming blogger like myself, I was definitely far too ambitious about what I could achieve.  Reading 50 posts a day, for example, would take 2.5 hours at the relatively swift reading speed of three minutes per post.  Add another five to ten minutes per comment, if not more (I tend to be a wordy commentator), and I’d be putting in nearly four hours a day for something that, while enjoyable, doesn’t directly improve my own blog.  (Yes, it helps get the Amateur Financier name out there, and promotes my blog indirectly, but doesn’t do much good if it leaves me with no time for writing my own posts.)  I’ll have to be much, much more conservative if I opt for a resolution like this again, to say nothing of actually getting around to reading more posts…

Resolution #6: Pay Down My Credit Card Balances
Comments: As you might guess, between the holiday season and the normal troubles of being a poor student, I haven’t made much progress here.  A nice goal, but one I couldn’t really achieve.
Grade: D- : Not surprisingly, this is still an area where I need to make more progress.  The goal is tackle this with renewed furor in the new year.
Resolution Review: It’s definitely a good goal to have (although, again, it’s a bit vague).  If I decide to tackle this again as a resolution in the new year, I’ll try to set a more solid goal level, rather than the vague ‘pay them down’.

Resolution #7: Create at Least Three More Sources of Income
Comments: Well, at the end of 2011, I still have only as many income sources as I did at the start of 2011.  So, pretty poor showing here, all in all.
Grade: C : I would put a D or even F here, but I have managed to build my blog into a pretty decent alternative income source, so I’ll call this one a draw.
Resolution Review: Probably my least well thought out resolution; in hindsight, I should have been much more concerned about how much alternate income I generate, rather than the number of places I derive said income from.  (Especially trying to be a Jack of All Trades would likely leave me as the Master of None.)  Of course, that’s not to say I didn’t put some thoughts into my level of alternate income…

Resolution #8: Generate At Least $1000 Per Month in Alternate Income
Comments: Here’s a surprise: I actually earned over $1000 in alternate income in December.  Granted, some of that was once a year offers or others that won’t enable me to earn more in the same place come January, but still, RESOLUTION = MET.
Grade: A+ : Yup, I’m giving myself an A+ on this one; it might have taken me until the end of the year, and I might not expect the same income next month, but hey, I did get this one done.
Resolution Review: I’m a little bit leery about a resolution like this which depends, in whole or in part, on other people (like, say, earning $1000 per month on a blog), but this worked out pretty well.  I’ll definitely have to consider ramping this up next year.

Resolution #9: Go to the Gym At Least Twice a Week
Comments: I’ll be honest: I’ve been slacking in this area lately.  Between the holiday season, studying for finals that came before that, and doing research that frequently kept me in the lab until eight or nine at night, my ability to get to the gym lately has all but disappeared.  It’s been a few weeks since I’ve been at all, and probably since the last resolution update that I’ve been there on even a semi-regular basis.
Grade: C- : Not too good, I’m afraid.  Definitely something I need to do better on in the near future.
Resolution Review: It’s a classic, going to the gym as a New Year’s resolution.  I managed to do better than many (perhaps most) people, but in the end, the same thing that gets to most people when it comes to fitness resolutions, a lack of time in a busy schedule, got to me, too.

Resolution #10: Reconnect with My Old High School and College Friends
Comments: Well, unfortunately, the closest thing to a 10th anniversary my high school had was an informal meeting in a bar near the school in the middle of the week (which ass a six hour drive from where I currently live, during a week when I had tests to study for), but I am connecting more with my old friends and classmates online, so I’ll consider this accomplished (kind of).
Grade: A- :  Still pretty good; not perfect, but given that I’m over three hundred miles away from most of my former classmates, I’m doing alright.
Resolution Review: Not quite the way I had hoped to reconnect, but given the power of modern technology, it’s hard to argue that I couldn’t reconnect with at least some people I used to know.

Extra Special Resolution: Being a Great and Supportive Fiancee
Comments: My fiancee Sondra was reading over my shoulder as I wrote this (and managed to catch a grammar error, so perhaps I should ask her to do so more often), and upon seeing the poor grades I was giving myself for most of my blogging and financial goals, insisted that I include this resolution and give myself an A++ grade for being so helpful and wonderful to her.  Hence, the added resolution at the last minute.
Grade: A++: Who am I to argue with my fiancee on this particular point?
Resolution Review: While definitely an important goal to have, it’s something I’ve managed to do pretty well without needing additional motivation. I’ll just have to be my sweet, wonderful self through the coming year(s), and I should continue to get high marks in this area.

Overall: C- Not too shabby (although, my fiancee’s grade definitely helped shift my score higher), although far from the A I was hoping to have.  I’ll need to try better next year, and try to come up with some better resolutions to try my hand at achieving.

 
 

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